Things I Wish I Could Say in Sunday School

November 11-17: Ether 1-5

In this episode, we explore the theme of responsibility through the lens of Ether chapters 1-5 from the Book of Mormon. Delving into the story of Jared and his brother, we examine the dynamics of spiritual responsibility and the implications of delegating our own spiritual tasks to others.

We begin by discussing the story of God confounding the language at the Tower of Babel, and how Jared relied on his brother to plead with God on their behalf. This raises questions about the appropriateness of placing intermediaries between ourselves and God, highlighting the importance of taking personal responsibility in our spiritual journey.

We also analyze the brother of Jared’s proactive approach in addressing challenges while building watertight barges, showcasing a collaborative effort with God. This serves as a powerful example of owning one's responsibilities and actively participating in problem-solving.

Join us as we reflect on our own lives, questioning if there are areas where we need to take more responsibility or if we are allowing others to shoulder burdens that should be ours. This episode encourages listeners to be the drivers of their own spiritual journey, making informed choices and taking charge of their responsibilities.

November 4-10: Mormon 7-9

Topics: 1) Imagining God; 2) Learning from others’ imperfection.
In this episode, we delve into the themes of "Imagining God" and "Learning from others' imperfection." We explore the concept of imagining God, acknowledging that our perceptions are shaped by personal experiences and cultural contexts. This discussion encourages open-mindedness and curiosity about differing views of God, helping us better understand our own spiritual journey.
We also reflect on the idea of learning from imperfections. By recognizing the ubiquity of imperfection, we can approach life with curiosity and appreciation for the lessons it offers. This perspective frees us from the constraints of perfectionism, allowing us to embrace imperfection as a natural and beautiful aspect of life. Join us for a thought-provoking conversation that challenges conventional beliefs and promotes honest, meaningful discussions.

October 28 - November 3: Mormon 1-6

Topics: 1) How involved is God in people's lives? 2) Prosper in the land.
In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into the complexities of divine involvement in our lives, inspired by the lessons from Mormon chapters 1-6. The discussion centers on the controversial idea of God controlling events, such as punishing or blessing groups collectively, and how this narrative aligns with individual experiences of divine influence.
The episode challenges the notion of God as a micromanager of human affairs, exploring different beliefs about divine intervention and questioning the fairness of group punishments. It draws parallels with parenting, pondering whether God would inflict suffering on their children collectively.
Additionally, we tackle the concept of prospering in the land, often linked with righteousness, and debunk the prosperity gospel that suggests wealth and success are indicators of divine favor. We question the idea of national favoritism and emphasize the universal love of heavenly parents for all their children, regardless of geography.
Join us as we navigate these challenging topics, encouraging open discussions about faith, divine justice, and the natural consequences of our actions. This episode invites listeners to reflect on their own beliefs and engage in meaningful conversations within their communities.

October 21-27: 3 Nephi 27 - 4 Nephi

Topics: 1) The name of the church; 2) What do ye desire?
We explore the significance of the church's name, tracing its historical evolution and examining whether it truly matters to God or Christ. Through a candid analysis, we consider the branding and identity implications of the name changes within the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, especially under different leaderships.
Additionally, we tackle a profound question posed by Jesus: "What is it that ye desire?" This segment encourages listeners to reflect on their true desires in life, beyond societal and cultural expectations. We discuss the challenges of understanding personal aspirations, especially in the context of career, family, and spiritual life, and emphasize the importance of self-compassion and openness in navigating these complexities.
Join us for an honest and insightful discussion aimed at sparking meaningful conversations with your friends, families, or classes.

October 14-20: 3 Nephi 20-26

Topics: 1) The House of Israel; and 2) Tithing.
 
In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into topics that often go unspoken in Sunday school discussions: the House of Israel and tithing. The episode challenges traditional views, questioning the notion of a 'chosen people' and the implications of such doctrines on modern faith and inclusivity.
We examine the idea of special privileges for certain groups and how it contrasts with the belief in a loving and impartial deity. The discussion extends to the practice of tithing, exploring the lack of transparency of the Church's financial dealings. Through a critical lens, we address recent controversies and question the integrity of certain church practices.
Join us as we navigate these challenging conversations, aiming to spark meaningful dialogue and reflection.

October 7-13: 3 Nephi 17-19

Topic: Pondering.
In this episode, we delve into the concept of pondering. We explore why Christ urged people to ponder His words and how this practice can lead to deeper understanding and meaningful discussions.
The episode examines the transformative power of pondering, emphasizing its role in helping us wrestle with ideas, expand our perspectives, and construct personal narratives. By questioning our own stories and considering others', we can uncover deeper truths and foster empathy.
Join us as we reflect on how pondering can enrich our faith journey and offer a broader view of the world, encouraging us to share these insights with our families and communities.

September 30 - October 6: 3 Nephi 12-16

Topic: The higher law.
We delve into Christ's teachings, emphasizing the importance of evolving our behavior and intentions.
Christ calls us to not only act righteously but to genuinely care for and love others. This episode challenges the traditional messages often heard in church, advocating for spiritual growth that transcends mere obedience to rules. We discuss the necessity of love as the guiding principle, even when it conflicts with established teachings.
Join us as we reflect on how adhering strictly to the letter of the law can sometimes hinder our spiritual progression. Learn why it's essential to internalize the spirit of the law and make loving choices that may go against conventional church teachings. Tune in for an honest discussion aimed at inspiring deeper, more meaningful conversations within your communities.

September 23-29: 3 Nephi 8-11

Topic: Forgiveness from God.
The manual emphasizes that Jesus Christ is eager to forgive, but I question the idea that God or Christ need to forgive us. This leads us to explore our relationship with God, the nature of sin, and the true essence of forgiveness. Contrary to common beliefs, forgiveness is more about the victim letting go and moving forward, rather than a divine memory wipe or erasure of offenses.
Reflecting on my own experiences, I share how I once felt forgiven by God, only to later realize it was more about me letting go of guilt. I argue that our misdeeds don't harm God, an omnipotent being, and thus, the concept of seeking God's forgiveness feels hollow. Instead, acknowledging our wrongdoings and making amends brings us closer to God.
Drawing parallels to parenting, I critique the notion that children's misbehavior is an offense to parents, suggesting it fosters conditional love and psychological baggage. I propose that many project these poor parenting practices onto God, leading to the belief in the necessity of divine forgiveness.
Ultimately, I believe our Heavenly Parents love us unconditionally. To grow closer to God, we must repair the harm we cause and mature in our behavior, letting go of guilt and forgiving ourselves. This self-forgiveness is often mistaken for divine forgiveness within the traditional framework.

September 16-22: 3 Nephi 1-7

Topics: 1) Being prepared is freeing; and 2) Division within the church.
We explore the story of Lachoneus and the Gadianton robbers, drawing parallels to modern events and emphasizing the freedom that comes from being prepared both physically and mentally. The episode also addresses the growing divisions within the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, discussing issues such as wealth disparity, racism, and the inclusion of LGBTQ members.
Join us for an honest and thought-provoking discussion that aims to spark meaningful conversations within your own circles. Enjoy and share with your friends and family.

September 9-15: Helaman 13-16

Topic: Prophets.
Welcome to "Things I Wish I Could Say in Sunday School," where we explore thoughts and ideas that deviate from the usual faith-promoting narratives.
This week, we discuss the story of Samuel the Lamanite and its implications on the perception of prophets within the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We examine the contrast between Samuel's outsider status and the church's current stance that messages from God can only come through the president of the church.
The episode also critiques the church's leadership structure, highlighting issues with having predominantly elderly men in top positions. We explore the potential benefits of younger, more diverse leadership, including the inclusion of women in all levels of church authority.
Join us for a thought-provoking discussion that aims to spark meaningful conversations with your friends, families, or classes. Until next time, please share this episode and keep the dialogue going.