Things I Wish I Could Say in Sunday School

September 23-29: 3 Nephi 8-11

Topic: Forgiveness from God.
The manual emphasizes that Jesus Christ is eager to forgive, but I question the idea that God or Christ need to forgive us. This leads us to explore our relationship with God, the nature of sin, and the true essence of forgiveness. Contrary to common beliefs, forgiveness is more about the victim letting go and moving forward, rather than a divine memory wipe or erasure of offenses.
Reflecting on my own experiences, I share how I once felt forgiven by God, only to later realize it was more about me letting go of guilt. I argue that our misdeeds don't harm God, an omnipotent being, and thus, the concept of seeking God's forgiveness feels hollow. Instead, acknowledging our wrongdoings and making amends brings us closer to God.
Drawing parallels to parenting, I critique the notion that children's misbehavior is an offense to parents, suggesting it fosters conditional love and psychological baggage. I propose that many project these poor parenting practices onto God, leading to the belief in the necessity of divine forgiveness.
Ultimately, I believe our Heavenly Parents love us unconditionally. To grow closer to God, we must repair the harm we cause and mature in our behavior, letting go of guilt and forgiving ourselves. This self-forgiveness is often mistaken for divine forgiveness within the traditional framework.

September 16-22: 3 Nephi 1-7

Topics: 1) Being prepared is freeing; and 2) Division within the church.
We explore the story of Lachoneus and the Gadianton robbers, drawing parallels to modern events and emphasizing the freedom that comes from being prepared both physically and mentally. The episode also addresses the growing divisions within the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, discussing issues such as wealth disparity, racism, and the inclusion of LGBTQ members.
Join us for an honest and thought-provoking discussion that aims to spark meaningful conversations within your own circles. Enjoy and share with your friends and family.

September 9-15: Helaman 13-16

Topic: Prophets.
Welcome to "Things I Wish I Could Say in Sunday School," where we explore thoughts and ideas that deviate from the usual faith-promoting narratives.
This week, we discuss the story of Samuel the Lamanite and its implications on the perception of prophets within the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We examine the contrast between Samuel's outsider status and the church's current stance that messages from God can only come through the president of the church.
The episode also critiques the church's leadership structure, highlighting issues with having predominantly elderly men in top positions. We explore the potential benefits of younger, more diverse leadership, including the inclusion of women in all levels of church authority.
Join us for a thought-provoking discussion that aims to spark meaningful conversations with your friends, families, or classes. Until next time, please share this episode and keep the dialogue going.

September 2-8: Helaman 7-12

Topics: 1) Prophets and external versus internal authority; and 2) Patriarchy.
In this episode of "Things I Wish I Could Say in Sunday School," we delve into the complexities of authority. Our discussion covers the intriguing story of Nephi solving a murder mystery and extends to broader themes of prophets, internal versus external authority, and the role of patriarchy in religious teachings.
We explore the concept of internal authority, emphasizing the importance of listening to one's inner voice, feelings, and intuition. This is contrasted with external authority, which includes prophets, leaders, scriptures, and other external sources of guidance. The balance between these forms of authority and their impact on personal growth and spirituality is a key focus.
Additionally, we critically examine the patriarchal structure of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, questioning its implications for gender roles and equality. Through thoughtful reflection and personal anecdotes, this episode aims to spark meaningful discussions and encourage listeners to consider their own perspectives on these significant topics.

August 26 - September 1: Helaman 1-6

Topics: 1) Pride cycle; and 2) Foundation in Christ.
Welcome to "Things I Wish I Could Say in Sunday School." The Book of Mormon's Pride Cycle is explored in depth, revealing how religious leaders may use the concept of pride to control their followers. We discuss the subjective nature of pride and its potential for manipulation.
We also reflect on the importance of a foundation in Christ, drawing from Helaman 5:12. The discussion emphasizes the need to prioritize Christ's teachings and character over institutional allegiance. Through personal anecdotes and scriptural insights, we encourage listeners to evaluate the true focus of their faith.
Join us for an honest and thought-provoking conversation that aims to spark meaningful discussions within your community.

August 19-25: Alma 53-63

Topics: 1) Being offended; and 2) Hardening and softening our hearts.
Welcome to "Things I Wish I Could Say in Sunday School." In this episode, we delve into the lesson for August 19-25, covering Alma chapters 53-63. Our main focus is on the topics of being offended and the dynamics of hardening and softening hearts.
We explore how Helaman's plea for aid was met with silence, leading to Moroni's chastisement of Pahoran, and how Pahoran's gracious response highlights the importance of moving forward despite misunderstandings. We challenge the narrative that people leave the church over trivial offenses, suggesting deeper, more significant reasons often drive such decisions.
Addressing the systemic issues within church leadership, we discuss the limitations of seeking help from bishops and stake presidents, emphasizing the need for a more supportive mechanism for those wronged within the church. Compassion for ourselves and others becomes a central theme as we navigate these complexities.
Join us as we reflect on Alma 62:41, considering how people respond to prolonged challenges—some becoming more guarded, others more open. We encourage listeners to contemplate their own reactions to difficulties and strive for a balance of open hearts and firm boundaries.

August 12-18: Alma 43-52

Topics: 1) More population math; and 2) Captain Moroni’s character.
Welcome to this week's episode of "Things I Wish I Could Say in Sunday School." In this lesson for August 12-18, we delve into Alma 43-52 with a fresh perspective.
We start by examining some intriguing population math discrepancies between the Nephites and Lamanites. These numbers raise questions about historical accuracy and narrative consistency within the scriptures.
Next, we turn our attention to the character of Captain Moroni. While widely admired in the church, our host offers a critical view, questioning his self-righteousness, anger issues, and approach to leadership. This episode challenges the traditional pedestal on which Captain Moroni is placed and explores why Mormon might have been his fan.
Join us for an honest discussion that aims to spark interesting conversations with your friends, families, or classes. Enjoy and share your thoughts!

August 5-11: Alma 39-42

Topics: 1) Sexual sin; and 2) Spiritual learning.
 
This episode of "Things I Wish I Could Say in Sunday School" delves into two main topics: sexual sin and spiritual learning.
We explore Alma's message to his son Corianton, questioning traditional interpretations of sexual sin and its severity. The episode argues against the idea that consensual sexual acts outside the church's law of chastity are sins next to murder, emphasizing the harm caused by such teachings within the church and family dynamics.
Additionally, we highlight Alma's approach to spiritual learning as outlined in Alma chapter 40. The episode examines various methodologies Alma used, such as diligent inquiry, reasoning, divine revelation, learning from others, and scripture. This multi-faceted approach is presented as a master class in spiritual learning, encouraging listeners to adopt a similar breadth of methods in their own spiritual journeys.
Join us for an honest and thought-provoking discussion that aims to foster deeper understanding and healthier perspectives within faith communities.

July 29 - August 4: Alma 36-38

Topics: 1) Context of Alma's family; 2) Importance of scripture; 3) Small and simple things; and 4) Shiblon, neglected middle child.
This week's episode delves into Alma's messages to his sons, Helaman and Shiblon, offering a unique perspective on Alma's role as a father and spiritual leader. The discussion begins with an overview of Alma's family dynamics, suggesting that Alma's dedication to his work may have impacted his relationship with his children.
The episode then explores the significance of the scriptures and their impact on faith. The discussion also touches on the origins of the Book of Mormon and the importance of critically engaging with religious texts.
Next, the focus shifts to Shiblon, Alma's middle son, and the messages he receives from his father. We discuss the challenges of being a middle child and the importance of balancing attention and support as a parent.
Tune in for an insightful analysis of Alma's parenting and the valuable lessons we can learn from his interactions with his sons.

July 22-28: Alma 32-35

Topics: 1) Faith like a seed; 2) Church rejects; and 3) Don't procrastinate self-improvement.
This week's lesson, covering Alma chapters 32 through 35, delves into the powerful analogy of faith as a seed, the experience of being rejected by the church, and the importance of not procrastinating self-improvement. Alma chapter 32 introduces the famous seed analogy. Faith involves belief in things we cannot see or fully know, and doubt is a natural part of faith. The discussion extends to the importance of being open to new experiences and ideas, even when they lead us away from traditional paths.
Alma chapter 33 highlights how being separated from one's traditional religion can open individuals up to deeper learning and personal truth.
In Alma chapter 34, the focus shifts to the urgency of self-improvement, encouraging us to make positive changes in our lives without delay. This episode underscores the value of experimenting with faith, embracing personal growth, and taking proactive steps towards self-betterment.