Things I Wish I Could Say in Sunday School

August 19-25: Alma 53-63

Topics: 1) Being offended; and 2) Hardening and softening our hearts.
Welcome to "Things I Wish I Could Say in Sunday School." In this episode, we delve into the lesson for August 19-25, covering Alma chapters 53-63. Our main focus is on the topics of being offended and the dynamics of hardening and softening hearts.
We explore how Helaman's plea for aid was met with silence, leading to Moroni's chastisement of Pahoran, and how Pahoran's gracious response highlights the importance of moving forward despite misunderstandings. We challenge the narrative that people leave the church over trivial offenses, suggesting deeper, more significant reasons often drive such decisions.
Addressing the systemic issues within church leadership, we discuss the limitations of seeking help from bishops and stake presidents, emphasizing the need for a more supportive mechanism for those wronged within the church. Compassion for ourselves and others becomes a central theme as we navigate these complexities.
Join us as we reflect on Alma 62:41, considering how people respond to prolonged challenges—some becoming more guarded, others more open. We encourage listeners to contemplate their own reactions to difficulties and strive for a balance of open hearts and firm boundaries.

August 12-18: Alma 43-52

Topics: 1) More population math; and 2) Captain Moroni’s character.
Welcome to this week's episode of "Things I Wish I Could Say in Sunday School." In this lesson for August 12-18, we delve into Alma 43-52 with a fresh perspective.
We start by examining some intriguing population math discrepancies between the Nephites and Lamanites. These numbers raise questions about historical accuracy and narrative consistency within the scriptures.
Next, we turn our attention to the character of Captain Moroni. While widely admired in the church, our host offers a critical view, questioning his self-righteousness, anger issues, and approach to leadership. This episode challenges the traditional pedestal on which Captain Moroni is placed and explores why Mormon might have been his fan.
Join us for an honest discussion that aims to spark interesting conversations with your friends, families, or classes. Enjoy and share your thoughts!

August 5-11: Alma 39-42

Topics: 1) Sexual sin; and 2) Spiritual learning.
 
This episode of "Things I Wish I Could Say in Sunday School" delves into two main topics: sexual sin and spiritual learning.
We explore Alma's message to his son Corianton, questioning traditional interpretations of sexual sin and its severity. The episode argues against the idea that consensual sexual acts outside the church's law of chastity are sins next to murder, emphasizing the harm caused by such teachings within the church and family dynamics.
Additionally, we highlight Alma's approach to spiritual learning as outlined in Alma chapter 40. The episode examines various methodologies Alma used, such as diligent inquiry, reasoning, divine revelation, learning from others, and scripture. This multi-faceted approach is presented as a master class in spiritual learning, encouraging listeners to adopt a similar breadth of methods in their own spiritual journeys.
Join us for an honest and thought-provoking discussion that aims to foster deeper understanding and healthier perspectives within faith communities.

July 29 - August 4: Alma 36-38

Topics: 1) Context of Alma's family; 2) Importance of scripture; 3) Small and simple things; and 4) Shiblon, neglected middle child.
This week's episode delves into Alma's messages to his sons, Helaman and Shiblon, offering a unique perspective on Alma's role as a father and spiritual leader. The discussion begins with an overview of Alma's family dynamics, suggesting that Alma's dedication to his work may have impacted his relationship with his children.
The episode then explores the significance of the scriptures and their impact on faith. The discussion also touches on the origins of the Book of Mormon and the importance of critically engaging with religious texts.
Next, the focus shifts to Shiblon, Alma's middle son, and the messages he receives from his father. We discuss the challenges of being a middle child and the importance of balancing attention and support as a parent.
Tune in for an insightful analysis of Alma's parenting and the valuable lessons we can learn from his interactions with his sons.

July 22-28: Alma 32-35

Topics: 1) Faith like a seed; 2) Church rejects; and 3) Don't procrastinate self-improvement.
This week's lesson, covering Alma chapters 32 through 35, delves into the powerful analogy of faith as a seed, the experience of being rejected by the church, and the importance of not procrastinating self-improvement. Alma chapter 32 introduces the famous seed analogy. Faith involves belief in things we cannot see or fully know, and doubt is a natural part of faith. The discussion extends to the importance of being open to new experiences and ideas, even when they lead us away from traditional paths.
Alma chapter 33 highlights how being separated from one's traditional religion can open individuals up to deeper learning and personal truth.
In Alma chapter 34, the focus shifts to the urgency of self-improvement, encouraging us to make positive changes in our lives without delay. This episode underscores the value of experimenting with faith, embracing personal growth, and taking proactive steps towards self-betterment.

July 15-21: Alma 30-31

Topics: 1) Korihor's arguments; 2) Korihor sees an angel; 3) Vilifying dissenters; and 4) Rameumptom.
We delve into Korihor's arguments against the existence of God and how he questions the integrity of Alma. Was Korihor right in his accusations about Alma profiting from his church position? We also discuss Korihor's controversial encounter with an angel and the implications of labeling dissenters as antichrists.
Additionally, we examine the story of the Rameumptom, highlighting the hypocrisy of claiming divine favor and the dangers of displaying wealth as a religious community. Are we, as modern believers, guilty of similar exclusionary practices?
Thank you for listening, and please share this episode with others.

July 8-14: Alma 23-29

Topics: 1) Fanaticism; 2) Death and conversion; 3) Hardened hearts.
Welcome to "Things I Wish I Could Say in Sunday School." This week's lesson delves into the themes of fanaticism, death and conversion, and hardened hearts.
We explore the extreme actions of the Anti-Nephi-Lehies, who made a group covenant to forsake violence, and the intense actions of their adversaries. This episode questions the portrayal of such fanaticism as righteousness, instead suggesting it is dangerous extremism. The discussion extends to the broader implications of fanaticism within the church.
Join us for an honest and thought-provoking conversation that aims to spark meaningful discussions about faith, extremism, and personal integrity.

July 1-7: Alma 17-22

Topics: 1) Missionary time away from normal life; 2) Taking a break for geography; and 3) Abish.
In this episode of "Things I Wish I Could Say in Sunday School," we delve into the Sons of Mosiah and their 14-year mission among the Lamanites, examining the emotional toll and community impact of such extended absences.
We also take a critical look at the unusual inclusion of a geography lesson in Alma 22, questioning its placement and considering alternative perspectives on the text's authorship.
Finally, we explore the intriguing character of Abish, one of the few named women in the Book of Mormon, and discuss the concept of "passing" within the church community. This episode aims to spark honest and thought-provoking discussions about faith, community, and personal beliefs.
Join us as we navigate these complex topics and challenge the norms of traditional Sunday School teachings.

June 24-30: Alma 13-16

Topics: 1) Melchizedek Priesthood; 2) When bad things happen.
 
Our discussion begins with an in-depth look at the Melchizedek Priesthood as described in Alma 13. I share my critical views on the concept of priesthood in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, questioning its exclusivity and the power dynamics it creates.
We then move on to the difficult topic of why bad things happen to good people, prompted by the disturbing events in Alma 14. I offer a perspective that challenges traditional explanations, suggesting that our heavenly parents are not micromanaging our lives, but rather allowing us to exercise our agency, with all the accompanying joys and sorrows.
Finally, we analyze the notion of prophetic power and its limitations, as illustrated in Alma's response to the suffering of innocents. This episode aims to spark thoughtful discussions and provide a space for honest reflection. Thank you for listening, and I hope you enjoy this thought-provoking exploration.

June 17-23: Alma 8-12

Topics: 1) Alma's work/life balance; and 2) Respect in missionary work.
 
Our discussion begins with Alma's work-life balance, highlighting the importance of rest and the implications of his home dynamics. We draw parallels between Alma's experiences and the pressures faced by LDS families today, particularly those with significant church callings. The episode critiques the unhealthy culture of busyness promoted by the church and explores how this impacts missionaries and members alike.
We also tackle the topic of missionary work, challenging the notion of persistence after rejection and advocating for genuine, respectful relationships. By reflecting on the example of Christ, we emphasize the value of pure motivations and the need for honest, open interactions.
Tune in for an honest and insightful discussion that aims to spark meaningful conversations within your circles. Enjoy!